Escort and Adultzone writer RedHotRio speaks to Paul, a Manchester client who is addicted to booking escorts.
Paul, 52, spends a lot of his income on booking escorts: “I see girls at least four, sometimes five times a week. If I can, and funds allow, I will book even more.”
He says his extracurricular activities ruined his marriage: “My wife became suspicious and I found her checking my phone. How she knew my password I have no idea. She saw pictures and videos I had on there from my meets and she went ballistic. She gave me an ultimatum stop seeing escorts or she would leave me. The escorts won.”
RedHotRio: So what is it about escorts that attracts you?
Paul: I think it’s the riskiness of it all; that you’re not really meant to be doing it. Escorts also take better care of themselves as they want to impress. They are also very experienced in sex and will do taboo things that you would never ask your partner to do. I wouldn’t do things that are considered ultimate filth with someone that I love, as I have respect for them.
RHR: Are you saying that you don’t respect escorts?!! (jokingly with an air of menace…) P: No!! (laughs nervously..) It’s just different with someone who you share your life with. You wouldn’t want to ask them to do something that isn’t considered normal for fear of causing an argument or making them think you’re treating them like a wh*re.
There is a fine line between how you’d treat an escort and your significant other. I was of course joking with Paul, but I understand what he means. Even going back historically to escorting in days gone by, the whole way that escorts came into being was to allow men to satisfy their base desires without having to ask their wives who were classed as “respectable women”, or force themselves on other unsuspecting women.
RHR: What do you look for when picking an escort?
P: I like the plastic look. Big lips, lots of makeup and fake t*ts. Over the top really- the total opposite to what I would look for in a marriage partner. It is the whole fantasy of a life size Barbie/ bimbo girl who will do anything I ask that excites me.
RHR: Is personality important to you?
P: A little. As long as she nods, smiles and says yes…
RHR: That’s very sexist! But I suppose you’re not looking for a connection, just sex. P: Exactly. I don’t want to know anything about the girls. They just have to look good and give me a wild time. Some escorts I think would prefer this. Just come, f**k me, get paid and leave. I have a couple of girls who I have seen more than once, but on the whole I see a different girl every time.
RHR: What is your ultimate fantasy?
P: My bucket list is to have around ten bimbos all taking turns f***ing me. Like a reverse gangbang.That would cost a lot, so if I won the lottery, it’s the first thing I’d do!
RHR: Have you had any bad experiences?
P: Yes, a couple of times. One of the worst was when I turned up to the escort’s apartment and it was filthy. The girl who answered the door wasn’t the one in the pictures and was much older and unattractive. I walked, not even going into the place and she shouted insults at me and threatened to have me beaten up.
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RHR: And what has been your best experience using escorts?
P: I’ve had a lot of amazing times with some beautiful girls, hence why I am using escorts so much, but one that sticks out in my mind was from a few years ago. She was slim, probably an 8-10, with massive fake t*ts, really plumped up lips and long lashes- the whole shebang. She gave me the time of my life. We did every position and she let me DP her a**e and p***y with a dildo in there at the same time. I extended the booking to six hours and I was done in for days after. She ruined me. No other girl has ever done that. She moved to London to do porn, and I’m tempted to go for a dirty weekend just to see her again. She was amazing.
RHR: Do the rest of your family know about your love of escorts?
P: No. It’s not that I’m embarrassed, I just don’t want the questions. It’s none of their business. I don’t ask them about their sex lives. It’s private.
RHR: Do you think that you will ever stop seeing escorts?
P: No! I have a high sex drive and that’s why the several long term relationships I’ve had never lasted. Plus the excitement and preparation for a meet is part of it for me and that would be lacking in a normal relationship.
RHR: Does that mean that you will never have another long term relationship? P: I’d never say never, but my perfect partner would probably be an escort, but then I suppose if we were together she wouldn’t be in escort mode all the time and would want to have down time and be normal and that would spoil the illusion for me.
RHR: I think what you are looking for doesn’t exist. You want the fantasy 24/7, but you have to remember that escorts are people too and are just doing their job to fulfill your desires. They have lives outside the sex work scenario.
P: Exactly, which is why I’m probably better staying single and enjoying it for what it is. I’m not lonely. I work hard and I spend money doing something that pleases me whilst still being able to have my own life and go out with the lads for a pint.
Whilst Paul’s experiences and story is only an example of what clients want from an escort, you must remember that escorts do not deserve to be treated poorly just because they work in the sex industry and should be treated with respect.
If you want more of a less talk more action meet, then be sure to discuss it with your service provider so she can give you exactly what you are looking for, since a lot of men like intimacy and a connection, the polar opposite to what Paul wants from his meets.
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