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Will, 52, from Aberdeen has wanted to push his levels sexually for a while. He sees an escort
regularly who has helped him fulfill many desires that he could not partake in when he was in a
“normal” relationship.
Redhotrio: Is that why you use escorts because regular women aren’t experimental enough?
Will: Yes and no. Some girls readily like to try new things but ultimately the majority of women
think hardcore sex is something relegated to porn or a mistress’ dungeon. It is hard to find
someone to have a meaningful relationship with who will be interested in kink. I have gone to
swingers clubs and the like, but I ended up with people who weren’t experienced and didn’t
want to get serious with anyone or who were time wasters.
RHR: So you went to these places looking for love? I don’t think they want a date, they just want
to be f*ed!
W: You’re right. I was looking in the wrong place so I decided to go to escorts for what I need sexually because they are professional, they don’t judge and they will give you exactly what you want because they are being paid. I will look for love elsewhere, but I think I’m going to keep that part secret from whoever I end up seeing. I’m enjoying it too much.
RHR: You are like most men. They have a wife or girlfriend at home and go to escorts for the stuff their other half won’t do.
W: It’s not being dishonest. But if I can’t find the complete package, then that’s the next best thing. A girl I’m supposed to love would never want to do half of the things on my bucket list, which is a shame as I think the experience would be more intense if you did it with someone that you had feelings for.
RHR: Well, it is a bit dishonest but I can’t judge, else I’d be out of a job! What made you get into sounding?
W: I’d seen some videos online and it just looked so horny, so I bought a rod kit to try with my regular escort. She was a bit nervous because she had never done it before, but we took it slow and we had an amazing session. She added an extra thrill by deepthroating me and putting a dildo up my ae whilst I had the rod in. It was heaven and it made me cry.
RHR: Cry?! Why?
W: Because it was so intense and because it was a fantasy fulfilled. The escort I see has
become very special to me. I understand what it is and it’s just her job, but I can’t help but feel
connected to her. I wish she was my girlfriend to be honest. That would be perfect for me!
RHR: Ah the dreaded curse of “The Connection” haha. I understand. I suppose it’s hard not to
have feelings for someone who you fk, and if you feel like that it means that she’s doing a spectacular job. The likelihood is that she wouldn’t want to shove rods up your ck if she was
your girlfriend. She’s just doing it because it’s her job and to that end, like you said, you would
have to find someone who is already into kink. But then you’re back to square one. Would they
be good at it? Would they want a relationship?
W: Yes it’s a minefield! So I try to reign in my feelings as I wouldn’t want to annoy her and then
she’d stop seeing me. So, I can dream but have to take it for what it is.
RHR: I’m taking it that you love sounding. Doesn’t it hurt?
W: No. It’s a very unusual sensation. It feels like every part of your ck is being stimulated internally as well as externally, especially because she gives me oral at the same time. We edged a little, and when I came, I nearly passed out. I’ve bought a second set of rods that are a bit wider as I took the others far too easily.
RHR: Aren’t you worried about infection or hurting yourself?
W: If you keep all of the equipment clean and your hands and bits then there will be a minimal chance of infection. It doesn’t hurt if you use plenty of lube and go slowly until you get used to it.
RHR: How big are you going to go with the rods?
W: I will keep upping the ante until I can’t take anymore. I’m enjoying this and want to push my limits and see how much I can take. RHR: Are any of your friends into kink?
W: I have one male friend who comes with me to some of the BDSM events. We have discussed perhaps having him join me and my regular escort since he has tastes similar to me and I’m also thinking about trying anal with a man and pushing my boundaries even further.
RHR: Oh, so a kinky threesome.. W: Yes! I’m particularly looking forward to watching her be f*ed and then maybe doing some snowballing.
RHR: So you have many kinks; you are very experimental.
W: How do you know you like it unless you try. I’m not getting any younger and I don’t want to
feel like I’ve missed out on something that I could have been doing and enjoying.
RHR: Getting back to sounding, would you like to do it to someone?
W: I think in that respect I’m definitely sub on all accounts, though I can be dominant if a girl is
bound and wants to be used. I love giving a girl oral and edging her.
RHR: Have you had any long term relationships in the past?
W: Yes. I was married. I have kids who are grown up now. I was bored both in my sexual and
day to day life. We just weren’t compatible on either scale.
RHR: Do you think more people should be experimental in the bedroom?
W: Yes. Life is for living so why not try new things? If you don’t like it, you don’t have to do it
again. A lot of the time, you will have to go to a service provider for hardcore stuff, otherwise
you’ll be thought of as a miscreant, but if you can do it with your partner then that’s even better
and it will spice up your sex life.
RHR: Does being outrageously kinky make you happy?
W: Yes, there’s nothing like it. Especially the sounding. I know not many escorts do it, but if
more people did then they would experience something truly remarkable. It’s a feeling I’ve never
had. I could never go back to normal sex now after trying raunchy things. I’ve stepped over the
threshold, the only way is forward and to experience more outrageous practices
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