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Bad Punter reports exist. Yes, escorts can report you too. Fact. How Can you Avoid Getting Blacklisted?
Bad punter reports can be posted by escorts that you have met. There are plenty of websites out there that encourage escorts to report bad punters. If you behave badly to your escort, then you could end up on one of these databases. One of the largest is the Ugly Mugs database.
There are a number of reasons you might get bad punter reports. This can include:
- Rude
- Abusive
- Dangerous
- Scammers
Apparently some of you guys out there even attempt to draw escorts into phone sex withot making a booking. Please. There is no room for that. Escorts are busy and need their phones free for genuine callers.
On the face of it, you may not be concerned about this. However, if you want to continue successfully as a punter, your name better not get reported.
The Consequences of Bad Punter Reports
The consequence of your actions can be catastrophic for some and minimal for others.
The result of your poor behaviour could mean you never get to meet the escorts you really want to book. When an escort receives a booking request, she can often run a check on the punter. She can look up the phone number, name and email address of the Punter requesting the date. If you are on that list, she is much more likely to decline your request. The best escorts make use of these databases. That means you are likely to miss out on meeting the best escorts available in your area.
Having your details on the bad punter reports databases, can have a negative impact on the relationships you have already established. Even your regular escort can be put off escorting you if she finds your details have been reported by another escort.
Even if the escort you book is having a bad day and you have a genuine grievance, be careful how you handle the situation. It is okay to be assertive. It is not okay to be rude. By keeping your composure, you also have a better chance of getting the outcome you desire.
You have heard of bad punter reports of escorts (both male and female), that have been published out of malice. The same can happen with escorts reporting punters. We have come across situations where escorts have reported someone out of malice. Yes, it’s not fair but it does happen. The only way to avoid this is to respect your escort.
Abusive and Aggressive Behaviour Gets Your Reported. You Know that, Right?
If you are aggressive and display threatening behaviour to an escort you are likely to be reported. There are no two ways about this. Escorts do not want to meet dangerous and aggressive punters. The job requires them to meet strangers on a day to day basis. This puts them at high risk. When it comes to their safety, the bad punter reviews databases are critically important.
Look, we have all encountered situations where the other person is being unreasonable. This may happen to you with an escort encounter. It could be that you have been the victim of a bait and switch scam. The escort you have booked could be very cranky and out of sorts. Whatever the reason, keep calm.
There is no room for abusive and aggressive behaviour. Unless you are in danger of being attacked, stay calm and balanced. Sometimes, you just need to put things down to experience. When you return to your PC, get your fingers tapping and leave a review of your experience for others.
Communications Breakdown and How to Avoid Them
Most of the situations that might arise are down to poor communication.
Be sure to communicate your needs and expectations with your escort. You can do this on the phone prior to the meeting and most certainly before you hand over payment for the service you require. If you wait until after the service has been delviered, you may find it difficult to get your money back.
Typical issues arise over:
- Price of the service
- Service listed not available
- Time of booking
We’ll take a quick look at these communication issues right now. Here is what to do to avoid a problem.
Agree the Price Before You Meet
One of the biggest communication problems escorts and punters clash over is price.
You may have read an escorts profile where she states her hourly rate is £150. So, you go ahead and arrange a booking. You arrive at her home and she asks for the payment in advance. Nothing unusual in that practice (Important, be careful of anyone that asks for a deposit in advance of a meeting). So, all good to go. Except now she wants £180 for the hour. Your options are to leave without paying and waste your time, pay the full amount or try to negotiate.
Here’s how you should handle this. Explain to the escort that you read her profile on a website. Tell which one and be as accurate as you can. Wait for her to explain. It could be that she has simply not got around to updating that profile. Then either agree to the payment or thank her for her time and leave.
In this situation, the price is the price. Do not try to negotiate. If she wishes to reduce her price as a gesture of goodwill, that is her decision and she does not need to consult you.
Remember, if the result of your negotiation does not go your way, put it down to experience and leave. It is always best to keep your composure.
Check the Menu Before You Order
Would you visit a restaurant for the first time and expect them to have your favourite dish. Without having looked at their menu, you would never know. Of course, a restaurant menu will change.
Services do change. It could be that an escort offers a service regularly but has had to suspend the service for a medical, physical or emotional reason. You could think of her as a Premiership footballer. She could need some time to recover from a previous match.
You need to check and confirm with the escort what is on the menu. If you have read a profile from the escort that lists some services. You still need to confirm they are on offer.
You need to check that a service is on offer and confirm if there are any terms and conditions associated with the service delivery.
If you can do this before you book the escort, that is perfect. If you don’t have a chance to talk or exchange email before your booking, then do this when you meet the escort. Make sure you do this before you hand over any money. Once you have handed over the payment, you will find it very difficult to get a refund.
The majority of escort encounters run smoothly. Be careful out there. Be respectful. Be Safe.
