Boudoir Rouge: An informative blog about working girl life with advice, stories and experiences from both clients and escorts.

Escort and Adult Zone writer Redhotrio interviews a selection of escorts to find out what things turn them on and what definitely makes them less likely to see a client again or even go through with the booking in the first place.

Turn Me On Baby!

Cleanliness is paramount to escorts and a nice scent can make a girl weak at the knees: “I love it when a guy has a strong, spicy scent. There’s nothing more erotic than kissing someone’s neck and smelling something delicious,” says Coventry escort Skylar. Smelling good creates a memorable first impression.

Being treated like a lady and not a working girl is hot. I have one client who always has a cocktail waiting for me and has some cool music playing and even has scented candles burning sometimes. The atmosphere is pleasing and sensual adding to the excitement and sexy ambience. Creating a nice environment makes a girl feel special and goes a long way to ensuring that you will quickly become a favourite client.

Tips and gifts are always welcome. If you are happy with a girl’s service then show your appreciation: “I have clients who have bought me shoes and handbags. It was all very unexpected, but it meant that they were happy with my service,” remarks Henrietta, a spanking escort from Cambridge.

“I enjoy being wined and dined in a nice restaurant when I’m doing an overnight meet,” says Shelby, a high class courtesan from Winchester.

Arranging an overnight session means that you can have time to chat and enjoy each other’s company. Booking a table in a classy restaurant will guarantee a pleasant start to the evening for you both, where you will be able to enjoy some fine wine and cocktails along with a delicious meal to get your libido up for the festivities ahead. It doesn’t have to be ridiculously expensive as long as it is intimate and the food and service are good.

Whilst some escorts don’t kiss their clients, a lot of girls take it as a given: “Kissing for me is all part of the meet. I do it without thinking as soon as I walk through the door. I love deep French kissing. It turns me on so much and is a good way to break the ice, especially if you’re seeing

someone for the first time or if they are a nervous client,” states Brighton escort Bella. Check before you book as some girls have kissing in their extras and will charge accordingly.

There are some clients, especially on longer bookings who like to be treated to a massage after having intercourse. What is a huge turn on for some girls is mutual massage: “ I see one client who loves a nuru massage. The oil is so slippery and feels amazing when we rub body to body. He then lies to caress and massage me which is lovely and relaxing, where I am the centre of

attention for part of the booking. It then ends up leading to another round of f***ing,” according to Leeds escort Hannah.

Run For The Hills

Poor hygiene and bad breath puts a lot of escorts off: “Just because I’m an escort, does not give a client the right to avoid being clean. It’s disrespectful and disgusting expecting me to suck a d**k that stinks of p***,” says Glasgow escort Eve in disgust. “They would be the first to complain if I turned up with hairy legs and an unwashed p***y, as that would make them think that I didn’t care about my hygiene. It works both ways. I would never see a client again who wasn’t clean.”

Pushing an escorts levels after she has arrived is a definite mistake: “I don’t like people who try and force me into something that I don’t want to do, especially if it’s not on my likes list,” says Cordela, vehemently, who is a Falkirk escort. “It’s a lack of respect and communication and someone who forces me would make me feel unsafe. Luckily I’m pretty good at sussing out if a client is trustworthy and can always tell if they are going to be untoward by the tone of their texts.”

If you decide to push an escort’s limits she will leave, as I have done with several clients. I will not be made to feel uncomfortable by anyone even if they are paying.

Linked in with this point and something that I have discovered in my escorting career is the fact that guys seem to not read a girl’s profile so they don’t know what services you provide or how much you charge etc. The profile is there for a reason and clients should read it before making contact to avoid wasting people’s time. Don’t just gawk at the pictures with your d**k in your

hand!

And pestering escorts outside of their working hours is also annoying. Again read the profile to see their working hours. We don’t work 24/7, we are human too and need to sleep and carry out our daily routine, but some people just seem to think you are always on call and have no life other than escorting.

Rude text exchanges are another thing that frustrates many escorts. Responses such as:- “U available?,” “???,” “Send pics,” or sending unsolicited d**k pictures are just plain impolite. The question mark thing REALLY drives me mad!

Remember that escorts are still service providers and should be spoken to with manners and with social etiquette. It is common human decency. I have pulled up people who are rude and if they don’t apologise I block and move on.

Clients who display violent behaviour including hitting or marking an escort can cause the meeting to end and the escort to leave or even end up facing criminal charges. I had one client who overpowered me and manhandled me leaving me covered in bruises. He said he got carried away after I brought him back down to earth with a slap. I threatened to ring my security who was outside and he apologised saying it wouldn’t happen again, but I never went back. There is no call to hurt a girl unless she is asking to be struck like in a dom/domme/sub situation.

Haggling an escort’s rate is crass and uncalled for. If you can’t afford to book, then save up. The sex industry is a business where people get paid considerably more due to the nature of the job. Dannika, a Russian escort from Okehampton says, “So many men try to knock my prices down

because I’m Russian and they think that I don’t understand. I will not be exploited and I‘m not stupid. I wish that they wouldn’t insult my intelligence.”

Kayla, a role play escort from Southampton says her pet hate is chit chatting before a booking: “I understand that clients want to get to know me a little before meeting me, but constant texting and idle chat that has nothing to do with the booking really annoys me. They shouldn’t message unless it’s regarding the booking, and having me text them constantly beforehand is not part of my service. They are paying for my time and what I do with it when I’m with them, not to entertain them in the interim.”

Now you know what to do to please your escort and what not to do if you don’t want to get blocked. Be kind, be clean and treat her as you would like to be treated and most importantly, enjoy yourself.

Below are a selection of escorts from the towns mentioned in this blog.

Coventry