Have you considered an erotic prostate massage yet? No, well perhaps now is a good time to consider this. Don’t be squeamish, this could just be a turning point in your life. Let’s dive in, shall we.
Although you can make use of a plethora of sex toys out there on the market, you can also hook up with an open minded escort offering massage, a massage girl or even a Dominatrix if you want something a little less Vanilla.
Erotic Prostate Massage: The Basics
The term ‘prostate massage’ isn’t particularly sexy, although I guess ‘bum fun’ doesn’t have a more erotic ring to it either, but trust me: it can be exceptionally hot. So you know your better half or “temporary girlfriends” can enjoy a good butt plug or anal toy, ideally slipped inside just before sex, so they can enjoy the sensation of being filled up when the penetration begins. However, if you have a prostate, you get that delightful sensation AND THEN SOME, because your prostate is super-sensitive. That can only be a good thing, right?
How to Massage the Prostate
It’s tricky to do on your own without a toy. So, if you want to try this out before hooking up with a partner, then take a look at the toy selection that can do the job. The Dr. Joel Kaplan Prostate Probe might be a good start.
While butt-plugs have a uniform shape, prostate massagers tend to be curved, so they’ll help you hit the sweet spot with the minimum of messing about.
When you couple up with a partner you can start to explore with a finger or two. The trick is to curl the finger towards the front of the body. If your partner has her fingers inside, then help to direct her until you hit the right spot.
An Orgasm Just from Prostate Massage
Some people can achieve this for sure. I have known a couple of guys who have happily spewed so hard it hit the headboard, just from judicious use of a couple of fingers or a toy. Others require a bit more stimulation: whether it’s with your hand, or your favourite masturbator or sex doll.
Some people won’t be keen on prostate play full stop, and that’s cool: as with all sex acts, they’re never compulsory.
If you are tempted, look for the right escort or massuese, ask her if this is something she enjoys before you meet. Otherwise, have a browse of all these excellent prostate massagers, or perhaps some budget anal toys if you just want to dip your toe in the water of bum stuff, and don’t forget to stock up on your favourite lube.
And please do enjoy yourself – as I say, I’ve known gents who’ve found this so awesome that the… umm… visual and physical effects of their first ever prostate massage were pretty spectacular indeed. Lube up, insert, and remember: you’re not in Kansas any more.
