Escort sex is the holy grail for many a wanton young lad looking for a good time but a professional relationship that goes the extra yard can often be what is needed to save a relationship.
We spoke to one punter who shared his story with us.
Escort Sex Got My Relationship Back On Track.
Mark was in a relationship with a gorgeous girl called Lisa. They had been together just 2 years before she fell pregnant. In that two years they had just got to know each other, emotionally and physically. In fact, it was true to say that their sex life was pretty adventurous.
Mark and Lisa quickly realised that they both enjoyed taking things out of the bedroom and experimenting with both romance and kink.
At times Mark would take charge and have Lisa tied to the bed. Then the roles would reverse when Lisa would don a pair of stripper heels and a long dress to give him a lap dance. Invariably ending in her sitting on his cock.
It is fair to say that they didn’t reach the plateau that many couples reach in their sex lives. These two where still experimenting. Of course, this situation is one that many of us have experienced.
Then the pregnancy. Lisa was tired, cautious and her libido dripped away. For the entire 9 months, Mark had to please himself. He didn’t want to pester Lisa. He could see she was too tired and just not interested in sex.
The baby arrived. It was healthy and adored by both new parents.
However, things took a turn for the worse when Mark realised Lisa was experiencing a form of post natal depression. This lasted for a year or so before Lisa started to recover. Of course, during that time, sex was on the back burner.
Now we have a relationship that has gone on for nearly two years without any sex.
Mark was desperate. He had tried more and more adventurous ways of pleasing himself in the background (cardboard tube smeared with Vaseline is a great technique!). The confidence Mark once had for sex was pretty much gone. He didn’t know how to approach Lisa; he wasn’t sure how to take charge and take control anymore.
With that, Mark turned to an female escort he had known many years before meeting Lisa.
Louise was an attractive, bubbly blonde with a great figure. She was in her mid thirties now but still had what it took to demand attention from punters.
Mark had known Louise for quite some time. She had been a regular escort and their relationship had grown. They had experienced some wild escort sex after their meetings that often involved kinky sub/dom action.
When Mark called and arranged to meet Louise, he felt the usual pangs of guilt and a feeling that he was deceiving Lisa by seeking sexual attention from another woman.
Mark rationalised this in his own mind. When he met Louise, there would be no penetrative sex. He would see her for a more kinky experience. He needed some physical connection with a female. This would be it. This might just stop those feelings of neglect that were eating away at his relationship with Lisa.
Louise knew Mark liked to take on a submissive role so she took on the role of a dominant and strict woman who demanded that Mark get on his knees. Louise had him kiss her gorgeous ass and worship her breasts. She felt comfortable with Mark too. She finished him off sitting on his face. He breathed in the sweet smell of a woman and basked in the submissive play.
Mark met up with Louise once a month for a while. He started to feel confident again. He started to feel in charge. Whether this was the sub play or the physical contact with a female, it is not clear. What is clear is that the escort sex was what would be the saving of his relationship.
Like with all things, people eventually get too familiar with a situation and demand more. In this situation, Mark was becoming used to the curves and play he was having with Louise. It is true that variety is the spice of life and Mark had tried a few other things with Louise during his time with her.
Something changed in Mark. He felt more in control. He felt more sexually confident. He felt like he wanted Lisa again and that he could have her.
From Lisa’s point of view, she was missing Mark. She missed the sex too. She was always quietly confident that it would come back even though she never expressed these thoughts to Mark during this time.
Mark, took charge again. That was exactly what the situation needed and precisely what Lisa needed to get her libido back. Like Mark, she needed someone to take control. Mark was not in that place. He was now. He took her in his arms and they started slowly but passionately to restore their sex life.
Of course, as many of you know, having children means that your bedroom play will be different. That does not mean it has to stop.
Lisa never knew about Louise. Mark has not seen Louise since.
