We hear a lot about escorts providing discrete services to disabled men and women. In this article, we hear from a popular Male escort that has provided much needed support to disabled women.
Disability and sex is an important issue. One we are keen to support. We have covered off a section of the site to help guys find escorts for disabled. Now we want to highlight the importance of sex and companionship for disabled women. To find out more about the physical, emotional and psychological challenges women might face we turned to a popular Male escort for some insight.
Escorts for disabled women speak out
Llandon is a Staffordshire based Male escort who provides a discrete service throughout the West Midlands. We talked to him about escorts for disabled woman.
For about six years I have provided services for disabled and differently abled female clients.
It started when i was asked to do naked waiting services at a hen do and one of the notes read,
“we feel we have to warn you that 1 of our party uses a walking frame, will this be an issue?”
I felt a bit sceptical at first that her “friend” felt it necessary to warn us about it. Mainly because of her disability, the girl’s parents and friends had always avoided the topic of sex as it was always believed that she wouldn’t ever be intimate or bother with it.
From that night I was asked if I did personal services, one to one. I gave her my number and asked if she would be willing to talk about what she wanted and we would arrange it all. She was shy and embarrassed but agreed that she would call me. This didn’t happen…she was too nervous to call but we kept in touch via text.
After about 4 months of texting and emailing each other she finally decided to call. We arranged a meeting and all was set. The date of the meeting came and went and no sign. Her carers and parents had decided that at the age of 24 she was not able make her own choice and didn’t want her seeing a “stranger”.
After more texting and emailing we finally arranged a stuck to our meeting, everything was fine and she was happy. Out of curiosity I asked her 1 day, “why did you feel you couldn’t go through with it the first time?”
Her reply flawed me. She believed that because of her disability and because she had been brought up to think she would never have that in her life, she felt unattractive and not wanted or desirable.
Somehow she felt she wasn’t entitled to fulfil her sex drive and urges and that it was a taboo that no one would want to talk about. Since then we have had several meets and it has been great ever since.
From that one meeting and the word of mouth that went around, about 60% of my clients are now differently abled and every time I ask why they never booked before they always say because they don’t feel attractive or that their disability could put men off.
Well to hell with convention and to hell with social norms.
Sexual needs and urges need to be satisfied and people need to be more accepting of it.
I am able bodied and to me it makes no difference whether I am booked for an able or disabled client, we always have fun and everyone’s need has to be satisfied!
You can view Llandon’s profile and book him from here.
Finding Out What is Sexy About Yourself
The inspirational Dr Danielle Sheypuk is an expert, media commentator, disability-rights advocate and fashion model. Her Ted Talks lecture offers an inspired insight into sex and disabilities. The talk is called “Every body: glamour, dateability, sexuality & disability”. You can watch that here:
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